Hello Gentlemen (and Ladies), Well, you know how fascinated I am by all of this so I'm very curious about how this craving started with you. I always ask the "spanko" people I meet and have noticed some trends. Some of you have had this desire since you were very small, some in your teens, some as young men and some ... very recently!
I would love to know what the percentages are - just think of me as Kinsey. (Well, I'm a bit cuter than Kinsey was.) Anyway, even though it's not very scientific, it covers everything I have heard to date. Think of this as the WILDER Report!
I'm going to list possible answers and I'm going to ask you to:
1. Type ONLY the letter(s) that apply to you at the top of the post.
2. Under that, type your gender and current age (feel free to post anonymously.)
3. If you'd like to add something (a comment, your experience, whatever) then skip a couple of spaces before you type it. This will make it easier for me to tally without having to search through your writing to find your choice.
A, K, L
Then write your personal comments here, if you like.
If you have not posted exactly like this - your post CANNOT be counted! If you realize that you did it wrong - you may go back and REPOST (copy and paste your incorrect post underneath your answers so I'll know which one you were.)
Okay, let's go. Pick just as many as you need that apply to you and your experiences.
A. I was spanked bare-bottom by my mother and/or father and I know that is where this started.
B. I was spanked bare-bottom by my mother and/or father but it had no effect on this at all, it came from somewhere else.
C. I was spanked bare-bottom by another woman (an aunt, neighbor, teacher, employer, etc.) and found it titillating at the time or later on whenever I thought about it.
D. I was spanked by my parents once in awhile but it was not bare-bottom and not ritualistic and did not have any effect on this, it came from somewhere else. .
E. I was spanked by my parents once in awhile but it was not bare-bottom and not ritualistic and that IS where this all started for me.
F. I was hit or beaten by my parents but not spanked in any way and this has nothing to do with that, it came from somewhere else.
G. I was hit or beaten by my parents but not spanked in any way and for some reason I crave spankings because they feel different.
H. I was NEVER spanked or hit by my parents but even as a child I just felt like I wanted to be spanked.
I. I was NEVER spanked or hit by my parents - this desire came from somewhere else.
J. As a child or teen I saw or overheard another child/teen being spanked and it titillated me.
K. As a child or teen I saw something (magazine, photo, book, etc ...) of this and it titillated me.
L. A nun or priest was the one who did the spanking and that's where it came from.
M. I like to roleplay the initial event that triggered this for me.
N. I discovered I had this desire as an adult in my 20's.
O. I discovered I had this desire as an adult in my 30's.
P. I discovered I had this desire as an adult in my 40's.
Q. I discovered I had this desire as an adult in my 50's.
R. I discovered I had this desire as an adult in my 60's.
S. I came across it on the internet and it titillated me.
T. I saw it somewhere (magazine, book, video, film, etc...) and it titillated me.
U. A woman (wife, girlfriend, date, etc...) I knew suggested it or did it to me and I immediately liked it.
V. I started out being the spanker and then began to feel like I wanted to be spanked as well.
W. I don't know where it came from, I just started to feel like I wanted a woman to dominate me in this way.
X. It turns me on sexually.
Y. It doesn't turn me on sexually.
Z. Other (please explain briefly here. You can go into details below if you like.)
Thanks so much!