FOX NEWS: Please, Ma’am, May I Have Another?
“Oh, the joys of spanking.
It may have been a dreaded punishment as a kid.
But as part of consensual adult play, it can be delicious fun ...
people enjoy spanking because,
in a safe environment,
it can be exhilarating to command and relinquish all power.”
PSYCHOLOGY TODAY: An Inside Look at S&M
"It's the ultimate break from the thoroughly modern stresses on the self. You've got a respectably high-powered job. Maybe it's even visible one. You are regularly making difficult decisions that affect the lives of others, perhaps many others. You need to maintain a highly polished self-image. You like to feel in personal control. You're constantly advancing your independence, your responsibility, your success.So how do you take a break? If you're like an unknown number of others, perhaps you've already signed up for a spanking.
Some write longingly of receiving "an old-fashioned, bare-bottom, over-the-knee spanking."
SEXUAL HEALTH EXAMINER: Spank me if you love me
“...taking on a role of obedience or helplessness offers a kind of therapeutic escape; from the pressures of life, from responsibility, or from guilt. For others, submitting to the power of a dominant, controlling presence may bring about the feelings of security and protection linked with childhood.”
REUTERS: Hands On Sex Academy in Berlin
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DAILY TELEGRAPH: Spanking makes men happy
“There will definitely be more men and women who have sexual tastes in this direction but won't call it this,” said Dr Juliet Richters, of the University of New South Wales.
“They might not like sex magazines but they just happen to like being spanked as part of foreplay. We really found that (it) is simply a sexual interest or subculture attractive to a minority, not a pathological symptom of past abuse or difficulty with 'normal' sex,” Dr Richters said. “They've just got a broader sexual repertoire than most.”
“They might not like sex magazines but they just happen to like being spanked as part of foreplay. We really found that (it) is simply a sexual interest or subculture attractive to a minority, not a pathological symptom of past abuse or difficulty with 'normal' sex,” Dr Richters said. “They've just got a broader sexual repertoire than most.”
TIME/CNN: Behavior - Bondage Unbound
“ ... there is no study that says that
BDSM causes distress or dysfunction ....
BDSM causes distress or dysfunction ....
the people we have looked at tend to look very much
like regular people from all walks of life.”
like regular people from all walks of life.”
TIME: Just a Little Harmless English S&M
“I think it is a perfectly harmless activity provided it is between consenting adults who want to do it, are of sound mind, and it is in private.” says British millionaire, Max Mosley.
WELCOME to all you Strict Women & Naughty Men!
Hi everyone, it's so nice to be back on the web and have a forum to continue my explorations. I'm happy to invite you all into my virtual living room for a civilized "spanking salon" of sorts ... a place where you can lounge and share ideas with sophisticated men and women.
For those of you who don't know me, I am a very normal woman, a professional in the vanilla world, who is endlessly fascinated by this idea of women spanking men and approach it with great interest, curiosity, vigor and, dare I say, affection. While I, myself, don't partake of the harsher BDSM aspects that some connect with f/m spanking such as bondage, degradation or true violence I understand that others might, but not here. That said, I do wholeheartedly believe in a woman being strict as hell on occasion, wielding a mean hairbrush and spanking the hell out of her man if need be!
Unlike other sites on the web, I don't approach spanking as a nasty, dirty little fetish or as a way to infantilize men but, rather, as powerful and positive form of adult play that can have some very beneficial effects for both genders. Please consider this as an unusual place where you can feel free to examine this desire from all angles, using our creativity and intellect as well as our sensual and erotic natures.
is THE place
to read what other m/f spanking enthusiasts
are thinking, feeling and doing.
And it's THE place
for you to offer your thoughts on the subject.
So, ladies and gentlemen,
let the
CONVERSATION
begin!
getting or giving a good spanking
do for you?"
Little by little I'll be posting some questions and musings on the subject
so please free to check back here at the Wild Talk Blog often
every day people tell us the darndest things!
By the way,
I run a tight ship and discourage discord, complaining and inane debate and will delete comments that annoy me. (See, I told you I was strict!)
The ever curious,
Monica Wilder
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