REDBOOK: Men Reveal Their Other Hot Spots!

“The thing about a butt is you can play like you mean it, 
it’s built for rough handling so go ahead ... 
even spank him 
if you think that’s what he’s secretly hankering for.”

FOX NEWS: Please, Ma’am, May I Have Another?

“Oh, the joys of spanking.
It may have been a dreaded punishment as a kid.
But as part of consensual adult play, it can be delicious fun ... 
people enjoy spanking because, 
in a safe environment, 
it can be exhilarating to command and relinquish all power.”


"It's the ultimate break from the thoroughly modern stresses on the self. You've got a respectably high-powered job. Maybe it's even visible one. You are regularly making difficult decisions that affect the lives of others, perhaps many others. You need to maintain a highly polished self-image. You like to feel in personal control. You're constantly advancing your independence, your responsibility, your success.So how do you take a break? If you're like an unknown number of others, perhaps you've already signed up for a spanking.  
Some write longingly of receiving "an old-fashioned, bare-bottom, over-the-knee spanking."

NEW YORK/NBC: Study Whips Couples into Shape

“... giving each other a sexy spanking did help many coupled-partners feel closer to one another -- those who were happy with their S&M time reported they experienced a tighter emotional bond."


“... even the most authoritative alpha male likes to be dominated by a woman in bed at times. Many men who endure stress and strain on the job, especially, of have high powered positions at work, love to surrender power in the bedroom.”

MORE MAGAZINE: Ways to Light the Fires!

"A long kiss, a good spank on the rear simply says, 
'I want you!'
Simple but it gets the message across. 
Make is an all-day foreplay."

NEWSER: Spanking is Stressful, but Brings Couples Closer

Spanking your partner may ratchet up the stress hormones, but they’ll thank you when it’s over, according to a new study.”

SEXUAL HEALTH EXAMINER: Spank me if you love me

“...taking on a role of obedience or helplessness offers a kind of therapeutic escape; from the pressures of life, from responsibility, or from guilt. For others, submitting to the power of a dominant, controlling presence may bring about the feelings of security and protection linked with childhood.” 

REUTERS: Hands On Sex Academy in Berlin

“People looking to set off fireworks with a new sex technique and those who might have missed out on sex ed when they were younger can get a refresher course at the “Amora Sex Academy” ... The Spank-o-Meter measures the amount of pleasure a mannequin experiences when spanked ..."

DAILY TELEGRAPH: Spanking makes men happy

“There will definitely be more men and women who have sexual tastes in this direction but won't call it this,” said Dr Juliet Richters, of the University of New South Wales.

“They might not like sex magazines but they just happen to like being spanked as part of foreplay. We really found that (it) is simply a sexual interest or subculture attractive to a minority, not a pathological symptom of past abuse or difficulty with 'normal' sex,” Dr Richters said. “They've just got a broader sexual repertoire than most.”

TIME/CNN: Behavior - Bondage Unbound

“ ... there is no study that says that 
BDSM causes distress or dysfunction ....
 the people we have looked at tend to look very much
like regular people from all walks of life.”

TIME: Just a Little Harmless English S&M

“I think it is a perfectly harmless activity provided it is between consenting adults who want to do it, are of sound mind, and it is in private.” says British millionaire, Max Mosley.

WELCOME to all you Strict Women & Naughty Men!

Hi everyone, it's so nice to be back on the web and have a forum to continue my explorations. I'm happy to invite you all into my virtual living room for a civilized "spanking salon" of sorts ... a place where you can lounge and share ideas with sophisticated men and women.

For those of you who don't know me, I am a very normal woman, a professional in the vanilla world, who is endlessly fascinated by this idea of women spanking men and approach it with great interest, curiosity, vigor and, dare I say, affection. While I, myself, don't partake of the harsher BDSM aspects that some connect with f/m spanking such as bondage, degradation or true violence I understand that others might, but not here. That said, I do wholeheartedly believe in a woman being strict as hell on occasion, wielding a mean hairbrush and spanking the hell out of her man if need be!

Unlike other sites on the web, I don't approach spanking as a nasty, dirty little fetish or as a way to infantilize men but, rather, as powerful and positive form of adult play that can have some very beneficial effects for both genders. Please consider this as an unusual place where you can feel free to examine this desire from all angles, using our creativity and intellect as well as our sensual and erotic natures.

is THE place 
to read what other m/f spanking enthusiasts
are thinking, feeling and doing.
And it's THE place
for you to offer your thoughts on the subject.

So, ladies and gentlemen,
let the 
"What does 
getting or giving a good spanking
do for you?"

Little by little I'll be posting some questions and musings on the subject 
so please free to check back here at the Wild Talk Blog often
every day people tell us the darndest things! 

By the way, 
I run a tight ship and discourage discord, complaining and inane debate and will delete comments that annoy me. (See, I told you I was strict!)

The ever curious,

Monica Wilder