tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post1436085326165896330..comments2023-10-23T16:21:20.621-04:00Comments on Wilder Street Publishing: WELCOME to all you Strict Women & Naughty Men!Monica Wilderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13777021369099610578noreply@blogger.comBlogger41125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-77563212803925158772014-04-23T16:11:19.252-04:002014-04-23T16:11:19.252-04:00I see it as part of foreplay in marriage. I don...I see it as part of foreplay in marriage. I don't believe in sex outside of marriage and spanking is definitely sex for me. After my wife does it I feel amazingly close to her for some reason. It's like she knows my inner most secret but doesn't reject me. That is very precious. She doesn't see me as a pervert but actually encourages me to enjoy it.Tony Conradhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02346695322947517602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-87976477602099031102012-11-29T18:51:00.070-05:002012-11-29T18:51:00.070-05:00I guess it is the whole process of being spanked l...I guess it is the whole process of being spanked like a little boy although I do not often think of it that way. I know a lot of subs will speak about being naked as humiliating for me having my clothes on but pants and underwear at "half mast" is more so, it some how feels more exposed. That might be because nudity never bothered me. Most of my experience is sexual spanking but I have A Moronoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-74436588911269316972010-07-15T23:54:20.623-04:002010-07-15T23:54:20.623-04:00It's great that you've re-established a pl...It's great that you've re-established a place where you can share your unique perspective on spanking and related topics. You have been sorely missed, Ms. Wilder!<br><br>As to your open question, getting a spanking combines many wonderful elements for me. One is the catharsis of penance/absolution. Another is feeling under the protection of someone who is caring for me. Last but not leastFerulenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-3819043384494535142010-07-15T23:56:30.087-04:002010-07-15T23:56:30.087-04:00Glad you are back. Just love being spanked and spa...Glad you are back. Just love being spanked and spanking other spankers.<br><br>BaltimoreAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-71049067483750505412010-07-15T23:56:30.086-04:002010-07-15T23:56:30.086-04:00I am very glad to see you back on-line with an int...I am very glad to see you back on-line with an interactive site. You asked: "What does getting or giving a good spanking do for me?<br><br>In giving a spanking, I especially an excited by the view of the lady's bare bottom-- sensing her mixed feelings of embarrassment and sesnsuallity. Watching her rear crevice tense and relax opening in lewd invitation as her cheeks burn with a heated blissnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-90501506981586092672010-07-15T23:58:36.905-04:002010-07-15T23:58:36.905-04:00I'm so happy to see you back on the web, Ms Wi...I'm so happy to see you back on the web, Ms Wilder!<br><br>In answer to your question, spanking for me is such a package of sensations and feelings. Emotional, physical, mental...it almost defies definition. But I would say that what is at the heart of it is a very, very positive thing. Whether I'm giving or recieving love and care is at its root for me.<br><br>I'm off this weekend toPhil01noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-23944948327951604302010-07-15T23:58:36.904-04:002010-07-15T23:58:36.904-04:00On this my first post at your new cyber home I'...On this my first post at your new cyber home I'm so relieved not to have lost you! Glad to read again your loving words! I find your loving discussion of what some of us carry in our tormented hearts, called a spanking fetish, with a driving life of its own, selflessly compassionate and healing of spirit from guilt, shame and fear.<br><br>To totally trust and be understood so intimately of Jon Wildairnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-5493214898374009422010-07-16T00:00:25.334-04:002010-07-16T00:00:25.334-04:00Hello Phil and Ferule and Bliss and Jon and, even,...Hello Phil and Ferule and Bliss and Jon and, even, Baltimore! Thanks so much for being the First Five to christen my Wild Talk Blog!<br><br>It's so nice seeing some familiar names! It's interesting, I think since I'm so clear about what I like to do and why -- I seem to attract like-minded folks.<br><br>I sometimes reread my emails and think, "Harrumph. I sound like a Pollyanna!&Monica Wilderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13777021369099610578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-62344400091384179722010-07-16T00:02:52.078-04:002010-07-16T00:02:52.078-04:00"What does getting or giving a good spanking ..."What does getting or giving a good spanking do for you?"<br><br>It depends on the kind of spanking. I have never been spanked by hand, so I have not developped an interest. However, since my young age, I have been interested in getting spanked with a leather strap, that was the form of children's punishment that was then used in Canada and in the province of Quebec, where I was Naughty Majonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-90914035333162149402010-07-16T00:02:52.077-04:002010-07-16T00:02:52.077-04:00hi Monica, my name is tony, i'am 53 years old,...hi Monica, my name is tony, i'am 53 years old, single w/m, live in north carolina and i have been an active bottom for over 25 years. i just love to be draped helplessly over-a-female-lap, while getting my fanny blistered with hand, hairbrush, paddle, strap and cane. i also love to have a rectal temp taking after i have faked and illness and even spanked from cheek to cheek while the temp is badboytonynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-74256844750024591052010-07-16T00:04:34.226-04:002010-07-16T00:04:34.226-04:00I have no desire to give a spanking but I do enjoy...I have no desire to give a spanking but I do enjoy getting them. I admit it is more a sexual turn-on for me to be naked and controlled by a woman putting me over her knee and spanking me. I fatasize about it daily and have had a few real time spankings but most were paid for and I still wish I could find someone who would do it for the mutual enjoyment that it could bring.M4OTKbyFnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-1928890224300487072010-07-16T00:04:34.225-04:002010-07-16T00:04:34.225-04:00Prior to the spanking there is an almost physical ...Prior to the spanking there is an almost physical pressure and stress level that can be felt. This increases as the spanking approaches and disappears while I am getting my bare bum smacked. The more juvenile and embarrassing the spanking, the more that stress is gone. In the aftermath, there is a great peaceful and calm feeling that engulfs me and makes me feel free. This can last for a few daysStephennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-14774232472314493502010-07-16T11:48:53.545-04:002010-07-16T11:48:53.545-04:00I guess it's the surrender...the giving in tha...I guess it's the surrender...the giving in that creates the release. For me, it takes sometime over a woman's lap to let it all go. I at first tighten, squirm at bit, even panic. Then, somehow, when it becomes clear that the spanking will continue, will be endured, a certain surrender takes place. You become a bottom..you feel like a bottom, it is the focus of your soul at that point. At Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-83712771034202741652010-07-16T11:48:53.544-04:002010-07-16T11:48:53.544-04:00You know, it seems that spanking has very deep roo...You know, it seems that spanking has very deep roots in many of us men and women - very connected to some primal maternal/paternal needs. I'm anxious to learn more about it on a true psychological level - and I thank you all for really making an effort to describe the complexities of what it feels like and what it does for you to receive a spanking.<br><br>Tell me, what is going through your Monica Wilderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13777021369099610578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-73575725360481336182010-07-16T11:50:42.128-04:002010-07-16T11:50:42.128-04:00What did it do for me? I spanked him only as punis...What did it do for me? I spanked him only as punishment, to keep peace in the household. Didn't do anything for me personally except punish and correct improper behavior. Seldom necessary. Worked like a charm.<br><br>LaurieLaurienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-12787352099844931172010-07-16T11:50:42.127-04:002010-07-16T11:50:42.127-04:00Dear Ms. Wilder,I am brand new to your blog and I ...Dear Ms. Wilder,<br><br>I am brand new to your blog and I think I have found a piece of heaven. I live in MA and got info about you through Aunt Vicki. I have lots and lots of stories/fantasies/etc. to offer as a child of the 60's! Here's to a new friendship! <br><br>Love from John (Jake743).Jake743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-80099146604929706162010-07-16T11:52:04.606-04:002010-07-16T11:52:04.606-04:00Undoubtably for me it's the humiliation that m...Undoubtably for me it's the humiliation that me a 50+ man still gets treated like this. The embarassment of not only having to bend over but to have to struggle off again when the dead has been done and sleek away.<br>Hard to really put an explanation on it<br><br>Paddy P.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-13012495747945524602010-07-16T11:52:04.605-04:002010-07-16T11:52:04.605-04:00For me,it is the helpless position of being held o...For me,it is the helpless position of being held over a womans knee,and the humiliation of her baring my bottom,knowing what is next.<br><br>The spanking itself should be very severe,and of course for me anyway-absolutely no safe words.<br><br>This is punishment only,and the reward is the mental release a severe spanking of this kind will provide....Thanks...Tommytommy4otknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-65068108401237900792010-07-16T11:55:14.227-04:002010-07-16T11:55:14.227-04:00I have always been curious about the thoughts raci...I have always been curious about the thoughts racing through the mind of the hapless spankee who finds himself bare-bottom over my lap. Are you in the roleplay at the moment? Are you thinking "Why in the hell am I doing this?" Are you thinking naughty thoughts about ME?<br><br>I'd especially like to know your thoughts before the spanking, particularly if you have been kept waiting aMonica Wilderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13777021369099610578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-26614269207760045782010-07-16T11:56:37.091-04:002010-07-16T11:56:37.091-04:00There's a huge difference between what's o...There's a huge difference between what's on my mind beforehand and afterward, versus what's on my mind DURING.<br><br>Before & after (i.e., when pain is not being inflicted!), my mind is focused on the sexual aspect. Now let me clarify - I have never been sexually intimate with any of the ladies who've spanked me. But spanking is a big sexual fetish for me, and with few Ferulenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-44336282770543538712010-07-16T11:56:37.090-04:002010-07-16T11:56:37.090-04:00Hmmmmm. My lover is a dear and I adore her, but sh...Hmmmmm. My lover is a dear and I adore her, but she's quite vanilla. On those rare occasions when I am over her knee or knees getting my butt patted, I'm usually fantasizing about what I would LIKE to be hearing and feeling. Unfortunately, she never gets into the dom role enough to provide any forewarningDBnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-42834346346961272010-07-16T11:58:10.318-04:002010-07-16T11:58:10.318-04:00My thoughts are about the event itself, like going...My thoughts are about the event itself, like going over a favorite movie in my mind. Or remembering a favorite event in my life and going over and over it in my mind. Here's where rituals are so important, whether they be corner time, or being put in different positions, being marched to be spanked, being told to put one'd bottom up and the like. <br><br>"Spanking language" hereAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-75276242859421152262010-07-16T11:58:10.317-04:002010-07-16T11:58:10.317-04:00I am speaking as one who administers the spanking ...I am speaking as one who administers the spanking but I am sure there would be lot of different opinions if the spanking was given in a discplinary setting or preliminary to love making. My hubby gets his share of discplinary spankings for certain transgressions especially drinking and driving. These are nononsense ordeals where I put him over my knee and take a wooded paddle to his bare bottom Elinornoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-36663099098067294192010-07-16T11:59:25.110-04:002010-07-16T11:59:25.110-04:00Well, before the spanking starts, I'm thinking...Well, before the spanking starts, I'm thinking how great it is to have a woman who's going to tan my bare behind! So I'm looking forward to it with anticipation and delight! I find the wait to be exciting, stimulating and erotic.<br><br>I've never considered fleeing at all . Then when it starts, and especially if she is using the hairbrush on me, I'm thinking what is wrong JayJaynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122490390030007863.post-57868436164272095442010-07-16T12:00:44.636-04:002010-07-16T12:00:44.636-04:00I feel pretty much like ferrule at the begining , ...I feel pretty much like ferrule at the begining , as the spanking starts I find myself automatically raising my bottom up to meet the descending strap, after two or three strokes the endorphins take over and I am on a real high and once I have found the rhythm of the spanker I keep raising my butt to meet the strap , there is no pain just that great high and eventually I will have a sexual climaxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com